Here’s What Kind Of Guy Gives Women The Most Orgasms
Long Story Short
Sorry smart and ripped guys, but guys who are funny and creative tend to give women the most orgasms. Especially if they put in the time.
We can thank Masters and Johnson for the first research on the female orgasm back in the 1960s. But since then, the big ‘O’ still holds plenty of mysteries. Particularly, why do some women orgasm easily, while others can’t as often?
A study published in Socioaffective Neuroscience & Psychology sought to figure that out and came to some interesting conclusions. What they found out after interviewing 103 people was that the key to a female orgasm… wait for it… is for women to be attracted to the person that gives them an orgasm!
Not satisfied? Don’t worry, the study got a little more specific than that. The researchers learned that attractive men doesn’t necessarily mean what we traditionally think of when we think of attractive dudes. You know, like being ripped, tall, dominant or even intelligent (sorry sapiosexuals). Guys with those traits didn’t necessarily give women more or fewer orgasms, according to the study. Rather, drawing from a 2014 study about the male traits that give women orgasms, the researchers found that guys who were “humorous, creative, warm, faithful, and better smelling” gave the best orgasms.
“The pattern found in our results suggests, conversely, that women’s orgasms depended more on traits potentially representing investment and attentiveness (e.g. faithfulness, emotional warmth) than classic markers of good genes and masculinity,” the authors wrote.
So there you have it. Funny, caring and creative guys give women the most orgasms. The end.
Well, there’s a little more to it than that.
Since she probably can’t laugh her way to an orgasm night after night, the researchers re-emphasized the need to actually take the time for foreplay and clitoral stimulation. They found that guys with the attractive characteristics mentioned above, rather than the traditional ones we think of, tended to put in the time, which could explain why women orgasm more with them.
“During intercourse, high-orgasm males were more likely to focus on female pleasure, communicate about sexual positions, use sex toys, and perform oral sex on the females in this sample,” the study authors wrote. “On average across all sexual positions, high-orgasm partners were also more likely to stimulate their partner’s clitoris and women appeared to be more comfortable stimulating their own clitoris with high-orgasm partners (potentially as a result of communication and high-orgasm partner’s focus on their sexual pleasure).”
So being funny and creative is better than being a jerk who looks like Ryan Gosling. But, only if you put in the work.
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